I remember exactly when my favorite marketing guru… became my favorite marketing guru.
In fact, I remember the SENTENCE that won me over.
He said “The key difference between rich people and poor people is that rich people get paid upfront.”
(Ten brownie points if you can name the guru. Now that I think about it, that oversimplified bit of wisdom may be attributed to people I’m not aware of. So I’ll still give you brownie points if you name anyone who said this)
Not sure how true that statement is… but that one single idea gave the guru a patch of real estate in my mind. That patch continued to grow for years… and made me happy to spend a whole lot of money learning from him.
You may have your own memory of a paradigm-shifting concept or mental picture that impacted you in a similar way.
This kind of big idea can be a shortcut to irresistible trust.
When you reframe how your prospect sees himself, his goals, challenges or even his place in the world, you can gain permanent residence in his brain, too.
Your insights can become the lens through which he sees everything else in your area of expertise.
It’s almost impossible NOT to trust a person who helps you understand yourself and your world. Then, once the idea takes root, confirmation bias kicks in, and the Semmelweis reflex guards the door.
(Semmelweis reflex, in case you’re unfamiliar, is a behavioral tendency to stick to preexisting beliefs and to reject fresh ideas that contradict them, even in the face of solid evidence to the contrary.)
How do you create these epiphanies, practically?
Look for common, relevant questions your dream prospects don’t have a clear, concise answer for. Or mysteries that befuddle them. Then fill in the blank.
Take life insurance, for example.
People have long wondered what kind of policy they should buy. Salespeople give answers that sound self-serving. Well-intentioned advisors give the real but complicated answer, “it depends.”
Dave Ramsey took the shortcut.
“Buy term and invest the difference” is a clear and simple recommendation that cuts through the confusion.
No one follows half of that advice, but Dave’s business seems to be doing pretty well. Countless adoring fans swear by his advice.
And who knows how many people have bought life insurance from somebody because he gave them a clear direction to move in?
Argue against the quality of the idea if you like. You can’t deny its influence.
Here’s my advice for the day:
If you’re trying to figure out how to gain credibility with your target audience – and who isn’t? – prioritize your perspective-shifting big idea as a proof element.
Giving your reader/viewer a clearer view of the world will often sink in more deeply than traditional proof.
Your big idea may be the shortcut to trust you’ve been searching for.



